In 1866, the United States was recovering from the Civil War. As soldiers began to return home, wounded and down-trodden, Henry Welles, a drugstore owner in Waterloo, New York suggested closing down the shops in town for one day to honor the fallen soldiers buried at Waterloo Cemetery. On May 5, the townspeople placed flowers and wreathes on the graves of fallen northern soldiers. At about the same time Retired Major General Jonathan A. Logan planned another ceremony, this time honoring those who had survived the war. He led veterans through town to the cemetery to decorate the graves of their fallen comrades.
The two ceremonies joined and in 1882 was named Memorial Day, a day designated as a time to honor United States soldiers who had died in all wars. In 1971, President Richard Nixon declared Memorial Day as a Federal Holiday, to be celebrated on the last Monday in May. Today, people honor and remember not only those killed in war, but also the lives of loved ones.
It is a time to talk to young children about what it means to honor loved ones who have passed away. It’s also a time to discuss with older children that though Montessori teaches peace and acceptance, it is right to honor those who have given their lives to serve their country.